Comments on: Lying about virginity

By: Nagashidio

Nagashidio — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 07:44:02 +0000

[via YouTube] I think sometimes we have to experience a situation to understand our mistake.Telling her fiance the truth or trying to change her mind maybe wouldn’t be a solution at all.Most of the times we are way too selfish to see the good will behind an advice and too weak to be truthful to ourselves.You should let her do what she thinks to be best.Someday her decision may make her a better person.After all she can have her reasons.We’re not the once to draw the line between wrong and right.Theory is easy

By: tricey4chris

tricey4chris — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 07:03:49 +0000

[via YouTube] stay out of it girl thats between them in less u want him then go 4 it tell it all lol but that means shes not ur friend

By: TheCynicalEye

TheCynicalEye — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 14:04:34 +0000

[via YouTube] 0:55 – 1:07 — Don’t tell me that you’re trying, even if just a little bit, to rationalize your friend’s lie by pointing to the supposed existence of the “1950s model.” Way to play the gender card.

By: MarzioBalducci82

MarzioBalducci82 — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 04:34:40 +0000

[via YouTube] To marry a not virgin girl is like to marry a prostitute . She gave the BEST of herself to another, of course she s going to live with a sense of guilt, that marriage is a FRAUD

By: MissLesaLynn

MissLesaLynn — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 16:30:18 +0000

[via YouTube] The fact that your friend is lying to her finace is way worse than her not being a virgin! Trust in a marriage is just as important as love, in my opinion.
If she doesn’t feel comfortable telling him the truth, than why does she want to spend the rest of her life with someone who she feels she can’t be her true self around? It’s a big deal only because if she lies about silly little things like this, it shows that she probably wont be truthful about other things, bigger things.

By: astro104

astro104 — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 06:39:01 +0000

[via YouTube] You do realize that there is a way for guys to tell whether or not she is virgin right? He will find out the first time.

By: Cigarrock

Cigarrock — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 05:54:33 +0000

[via YouTube] I hope that the secret is found out in this video.

By: Elizabeth McDonald

Elizabeth McDonald — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 03:04:10 +0000

Dear Esther,

Often times we are in situations with friends who cause a lot of drama in our lives. Not only our lives, but their own lives. It is how they live, they feed off of this drama and this is what makes them feel alive. Unlitmately, it is their drama and not yours. You are walking into a trap if you think you can save this guy by telling him the truth. You will not only lose a friend, but you will also potentially cause them both a great deal of pain. Is that what you really want to do? It is their lives, not yours, you have your own life to live. Step out of the situation and really look at it. He probably really loves her and ultimately if he knew the truth it wouldn’t matter anyways, especially in this day and age. Now, if it is going to cause her danger, ie…she is going to be killed by his family if she isn’t a virgin, then I would say something because ultimately you would be saving her life. But what if, she had a religious experience and she made the decision that she wasn’t going to be involved with a man again until she was married, well…that is admirable. You could voice your concerns to your friend, that would be the most that you should do, other then that, let them live their lives and be happy. You found the love of your life, let others do the same and be happy. Then one day years after they are married and the truth comes out…it will be her truth to tell and then she will have the conscequences to deal with. Being a good friend means being there for your friends even when they are making a dumb mistake. It isn’t judging them for what they do or don’t do. Blessings to you !!! Liz

By: dinkyface

dinkyface — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:15:22 +0000

[via YouTube] Hmm, so I guess she also lied to him when they discussed getting tested for STDs and HIV? That’s disturbing….

By: theOvin

theOvin — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 08:38:37 +0000

[via YouTube] What if she has an STD? Many women have them and don’t know. That would make for a very interesting post honeymoon.

Also, if they weren’t having sex simply because she said she was a virgin and wanted to wait. That could make him angry.